Cheaters & Broken Hearts
Support for those affected by infidelity...
Cheaters & Broken Hearts is where you will find information and support that will help you get through one of the most painful experiences of your life--a spouse's infidelity.
When you find that your spouse has been unfaithful, you're heart-broken. You feel as if your heart is in a vise, and you're filled with so many emotions--pain, rage, fear, humiliation... You think of getting revenge on the "homewrecker" you see as the cause of all your heartache. You blame the other woman, seeing her as nothing short of the devil. When your spouse is a cheater, you're suspicious of everything he does, and with good reason. You're miserable. There is no trust because he has broken that trust.
Those are just a few of the thoughts, emotions, and realities of the "love triangle." Few of us escape this life without being involved in, whether willingly or not, or affected by, a love triangle. Fewer still, are those involved and not deeply scarred.
As we all know, having an unfaithful spouse/partner is one of the most painful and devastating experiences a person could have. Believe it or not, equally as painful are the experiences of the other woman. Even the cheater usually doesn't get by unscathed. That's not to mention the pain of the families, mutual friends, and especially the children of the people in whose lives has crept the monster we call infidelity.
We scream, we cry, we threaten suicide, we hold on, we leave and we attack. Nothing seems to ease the pain, but time, prayer, and lots of support. That's why I'm here. I can't promise you that the pain will disappear completely, but it will become manageable, and your life will get better. It might not seem like it right now, but the tragedy of infidelity can be a blessing in disguise. If you're with a "true cheater," it's better that you know, and that you put him out of your life!
The purpose of this website is not to fuel the fire of rage. The purpose is to bring some understanding to those who hope to find it, and to give those who choose to, an outlet to express their feelings about their experiences with infidelity. With support, understanding, and communication with someone who has been involved in similar situations, we can learn to accept what has happened and to forgive those who have hurt us. In doing so, the road to healing is wide open for you. It is my hope that this site will be instrumental in helping to bring you to that healing.
I hope you enjoy your experiences on this site, and that they can help you to recover from the hell of infidelity, regardless of your point of view. I encourage you to share your insight in the QUESTION-NAIRES, and in writing your ANONYMOUS story under "Tell Me Your Story" below. Your story and questionnaire answers will not be seen by visitors--it will come to me in a private message. You can also leave a message in the Guest Book Message Area below, which is PUBLIC, once it is approved. Commenting on my BLOG IS PUBLIC. Those comments will not only help you, but they will also help others.
Each page has a message area, so you can contact me. These messages ARE PRIVATE--NOT SEEN ON THE SITE. They do not give me your contact info, so if you would like to have me contact you with a response, please LEAVE YOUR EMAIL ADDRESS IN THE MESSAGE. I've received many messages with questions or pleas for help, and I feel really bad because I don't have their contact information, and
can't reach out to help them.
Make yourself at home. I'm here for you. Have a great stay, and take care of you!
Kitten
If you'd like, you can make a donation to help support the site and blog, which will help me keep doing what I'm
doing--trying to help you heal. : )
(For the sake of simplicity, and because I'm writing from a woman's point of view, the cheaters are referred to as males, and the betrayed and "others" are women. Most of the advice given to women could also work for men.)
Guest Book Message/Comment Area
Once messages written in this area are approved, they will be public.
Tell Me Your Story
Anything you write in this section is NOT PUBLIC--it goes to me in a private message.
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