Cheaters & Broken Hearts - Support for those affected by infidelity


Cheaters & Broken Hearts
Support for those affected by infidelity...
Your questionnaires will only be seen by me, so please be honest, if you choose to fill one out. If you you have held more than one position in a love triangle, feel free to fill out questionnaires for whichever apply to your circumstances. If you have more than one experience with infidelity, you can fill out a questionnaire for each instance, if you choose. Thank you so much for your participation!
1. How many spouses/partners have you cheated on?
2. Why did you cheat?
3. Was the sex better with the one you cheated with?
4. Do/did you feel justified when you were cheating?
5. Was it...
6. Did your spouse/partner find out about your infidelity?
7. How did you feel about your spouse's/partner's pain regarding your infidelity?
8. Do you think you'll always be unfaithful?
9. What were your feelings about getting caught cheating?
10. What did you think the consequences would be if you were to get caught cheating?
11. When you cheated on your spouse/partner, were you IN LOVE WITH YOUR SPOUSE/PARTNER?
12. When you cheated on your spouse/partner, were you IN LOVE WITH THE OTHER WOMAN/MAN?
13. When or just after you were with the one you were cheating with, how did you feel? Check all that apply.
14. Did alcohol or drugs play a part in your infidelity?
15. I am a...
1. How many lovers have you been with who were married or in a committed relationship?
2. Did you know he/she was married or in a committed relationship?
3. How did you feel about the fact that he/she was married?
4. Did you consider how his/her relationship with you would affect his/her spouse/partner?
5. Were you in love with him/her?
6. Did you hope he/she and the spouse/partner would divorce/break up?
7. How did you feel toward his/her spouse/partner?
8. How was the sex with the married man/woman?
9. Do you regret your involvement with the married man/woman?
10. Did he/she leave the spouse/partner for you?
11. In the beginning, what did he/she tell you about his/her relationship &/or spouse/partner?
12. During your relationship with the married man/woman, what was your emotional/mental status?
13. Were drugs or alcohol involved in the relationship?
14. I am a...
1. How many men/women have cheated on you?
2. Before you found out he/she had cheated, were you suspicious?
3. When you found that he/she had cheated, how did you FIRST respond?
4. What emotions did you feel strongest--check all that apply.
5. At some point, you get angry. At whom was your anger directed?
My spouse/partner
Other woman/man
No one
All of the above
6. Did you try to hold on to your cheating spouse/partner?
7. If you tried to hold on to the cheater, why did you do it? Check all that apply.
I held on for the children.
I loved him/her.
I was afraid I couldn't make it financially.
To keep him/her away from her/him
8. Where do you place the blame for the infidelity?
All of the above
9. How did you find out he/she had been unfaithful?
I was suspicious & found evidence.
A friend/family member told me.
The other woman/man told me.
My spouse/partner told me.
He/she left me for her/him.
10. If you confronted the cheater, how did he/she respond?
He/she tried to hold onto me.
He/she offered to get counseling.
He/she promised to end it.
He/she said he/she loved her/him.
He/She said he/she wanted out.
He/She left me for her/him.
They are married now.
11. I am a...
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